Proceedings of the 1st Raden Intan International Conference on Muslim Societies and Social Sciences (RIICMuSSS 2019)

Local Wisdom for Marriage Conflict Mediation in Muslim Minahasa, Indonesia

Authors
Ahmad Rajafi, Ressi Susanti, Naili Adilah Hamhij
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Ahmad Rajafi
Available Online 13 November 2020.
DOI
10.2991/assehr.k.201113.057How to use a DOI?
Keywords
Marriage mediation, BP4 North Minahasa, Islamic happy family
Abstract

This research aims at exploring the use and role of local wisdom of Sitou Timou Tomou Tou by the Counseling Agency for Development and Preservation of Marriage (BP4) among Muslims in North Minahasa, in North Sulawesi, Indonesia. This research asks how did the BP4 in North Minahasa mediate conflicts in a family. This research is qualitative research, with the type of empirical legal research in the form of normative juridical. The participants of this research are local leaders and parties who registered their case to the BP4 in North Minahasa. The data are obtained through observation, interviews, documents and literature. The findings of the research are the following. First, BP4 in Nort Minahasa implemented the more progressive and responsive model, namely by accepting the values of wisdom that live in the community (local wisdom). Second, the implementation of the aspects of sitou timou tomou tou model, which are social interaction, tolerance, team work, economic aspect. Based on the improvisation of BP4 in North Minahasa, all cases included the mediation can be completed optimally. So that all couples (husband and wife) who have conflicts can be reunite in order to create the happy family, of the framework of sakinah, mawaddah and rahmah.

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Volume Title
Proceedings of the 1st Raden Intan International Conference on Muslim Societies and Social Sciences (RIICMuSSS 2019)
Series
Advances in Social Science, Education and Humanities Research
Publication Date
13 November 2020
ISBN
10.2991/assehr.k.201113.057
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2352-5398
DOI
10.2991/assehr.k.201113.057How to use a DOI?
Copyright
© 2020, the Authors. Published by Atlantis Press.
Open Access
This is an open access article distributed under the CC BY-NC license (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/4.0/).

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